Andrea's blog

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Time for a Big Chop

Sometimes, you just need a change.  It's not that I didn't love my long curly hair -- it's just that it's been long for almost 9 years.  With all the health problems and stress I've had in the past two years, I felt like my long hair was dragging my already-tired face down even more, and it was time for something a little more springy....  and it's not like I haven't had short hair before...

I asked for something like these photos below and my hairdresser asked me several times, "Are you sure? That's very short in the back.  No ponytails anymore!" I assured her I was certain, and to just do it!!

Even if it's just psychological, I think it helped, and I'm excited to have a new "look" for a while.  And bonus, my hair no longer gets caught up in my purse strap anymore! 

The pics above were immediately after the haircut, but after washing it the next morning and letting it air dry with all the right curly girl products, I couldn't believe how curly it got!

The kids came home from school and it took them both several hours to notice that I cut my hair at all.  So maybe it wasn't as dramatic as I thought!

I can just about guarantee in a few months, I'll go a little shorter. ;) 

 

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Got Cookies?

Ayla is selling Girl Scout cookies to raise money for her troop's trip to Savannah this spring (and she's very excited, as you can see). If you don't already have your own Girl Scout to purchase from, she'd be thrilled if you'd help her toward her goal of selling 300 boxes!


(A Message From Ayla)

I would love it if you ordered cookies from me!  We have a new cookie called Girl Scout S'mores!  I made a slide show that shows all of the different kinds of cookies!

  • Thin Mints   $4.00 a box
  • Tagalongs   $4.00 a box
  • Samoas      $4.00 a box
  • Savannah Smiles   $4.00 a box
  • Trefoils        $4.00 a box
  • Do-Si-Dos   $4.00 a box
  • Toffee-Tastic $5.00 a box
  • Girl Scout S'mores  $5.00 a box 
If you live near me, email what cookies you want and they will be delivered!
 
You can also order through my Digital Cookie Site if you need your cookies shipped to you, or would like to pay online (I can still deliver them):  https://digitalcookie.girlscouts.org/scout/ayla475838
 
My goal is to sell 300 boxes so that I can earn money to go to Savannah with my girl scout troop this spring.
 
❤ Ayla

 

We'll have cookies in-hand and ready to deliver at the end of January. Thank you for supporting her and her troop!

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One Word 2017: FRIENDSHIP

I haven't ever participated in the "One Word" movement that many people do every new year.  My mother-in-law has done it for the past 6 years and talks often about her "word" and how it affects her attitude and actions. 

That said, as I look back on 2016, it's very clear that there was a theme tying together all the things we focused on throughout the past year--COMMUNITY:

Whether it was through church, our neighborhood, our extended families, sports teams, school groups, or our city -- we were heavily involved in doing all we could to cultivate community in our lives and God blessed us tremendously, widening our circle and giving us a ton of new people in our lives to love and care for.

In 2017, building on that connected feeling I've felt with the people around me, I hope to focus on fostering FRIENDSHIPS -- taking a few of those community relationships and turning them into deeper friendships.

 

Turning those acquaintances into true friendships, where we are able to share the good, the bad, the fun and the frustrating.

Here's to a year filled with friends!

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Back to My Roots - Ombre Hair

Back in November, I bit the bullet and covered my ombre & balayage hair with dark cherry red.  Though it was fun for a while, I didn't realize the intense upkeep needed to keep red hair bright and vibrant.  So it faded very quickly and I was left with a toned-down and reddish version of my balayage and ombre highlights...which was okay for a while.

It lasted several months, until I decided it was time to freshen things up and go back to my dark roots.  In a way, I went back to the ombre look I originally had done when I first started coloring my hair, but we did it "backwards".  Instead of coloring the ends of my hair, my hairstylist matched my natural haircolor and then painted the dark color from the roots down about 1/3 of of the way down my hair and blended it into my already light ends. 

Ombre Hair - Black to Caramel

I love the result--and when I look in the mirror now, it's funny how much more like "ME" it seems.  I guess I'll always be a dark-haired girl at my core.

Ombre Hair - Black to Caramel

Long Ombre Hair - Black to Caramel

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Breaking Busy

Coffee, birds and books this morning... I'm taking #breakingbusy to heart.

The book is called Breaking Busy by Alli Worthington - If you're an overwhelmed mom with a jam-packed calendar, you might want to give it a read. $8.99 on Kindle...you don't even have to go to the bookstore to get it!

Some, ok LOTS of people say YES to things they shouldn't out of guilt or obligation.  I hear it from people I talk to every single day.  If that's you, then you definitely should read this book. 

Me? I don't fall into that category.  I'm ok with saying no to things that don't match up with my schedule, talents and interests.  Just ask the room moms from the kids' classes over the past several years. 

However...I do have a way-too-full calendar of things I say YES to because they sound like good things, fun things, and important things.  I'm not finished with the book yet, but it is already helping me identify a better way to filter the opportunities that come my way to determine what's really *most* important and where I'm called to be at any given time (because that calling can change, you know!). 

Our lives have gotten all cluttered up with things that we think we  “should” do; so much so that we can’t figure out what the things are that we were meant to do.

Breaqking Busy by Alli Worthington

Here's to Breaking Busy and being more intentional with our time and energy...

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Generations Photo

Inspired by the photo below, my mom asked me to put together a Generations photo including my Grandmother (Alice), my mom (Audrey), me (Andrea) and my daughter (Ayla). 

Since we live in different areas of the world, we had non-matching backgrounds.  With a little bit of Photoshop magic, here's what I came up with:

We liked having the youngest and prettiest generation as the largest and clearest photo! :)

This was my first attempt at something like this, but I think with a little practice and a more solid background, it could be done really well.  Maybe at the next family get-together we'll do a more "professional" version--and maybe I'll put a little makeup on for that photo!

While we were at it, I also couldn't help but try a more modern version--since this is how most people look at photos these days. :)

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Seeing Red

I get bored every once in a while.  Changing my hair color is easier (and causes much less turmoil) than changing other things in my life--not that other things need to change, they don't!   In the past few weeks, I was feeling restless and a little bit adventurous. It was time for a change. 

After a couple of years with caramel ombre & balayage highlights, with some extra light strands this past summer, I thought maybe I'd try something dark with a tint of red for a while.

My inspiration colors of "chocolate cherry" and "cherry cola" hair pictures took over my Pinterest Hair board for a while:

Chocolate Cherry Hair Color

It's definitely a big change!

It's taking some getting used to...but I think it'll be kind of fun and moody for a little while.

So far though...I'm not loving how it looks when it's naturally curly.  :(  (No photos of that fuzzy mess yet...) Maybe that means I'll need to fix my hair more often? 

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Hanging Around: ENO DoubleNest & 9ft Atlas Straps

Look what showed up this weekend!

Ayla used some birthday money that has been burning a hole in her money envelope for months and Ben and I bought a "family" ENO hammock so we could ALL enjoy hanging around...

The straps and included carabiners make them really easy to put them up, and thankfully, we have three trees in our yard that work perfectly to hang the two hammocks next to each other.  The set of 9ft straps also allow us to *just* reach across the diagonal of those trees too for better "adult" hammock-ing. 

Unfortunately, Ayla and Paxton didn't stay this peaceful for long.  When I went out to check on them, I found that Ayla had thrown berries in the air to make it "rain", which landed in Paxton's hammock, where he promptly--though inadvertently--stomped them and squished them all over the orange fabric as he wiggled around. 

Stained.  Instantly.  We should've bought black...

After a couple of washes (super-gentle hand-wash cold cycle!), the stains have faded, but they're still there.  They'll serve as a reminder that kids can't always handle "nice" things -- and "Nothing gold can stay."  

Thankfully, it wasn't torn--which really WOULD have been tragic.

And Ayla does LOVE her hammock.  She said she could "swing and rest and read and look at the trees ALL day long!"  With the gorgeous fall weather we've been getting, she just might.

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Girl Scouts Badge Work: Digital Photography

Each of the moms in Ayla's girl scout troop take turns heading up a badge and running a meeting during the year.  Monday night was my night! We tackled the Digital Photography Badge.  

First we talked about the different kind of cameras: Point & Shoot, SLR & Mobile Devices

We talked about the diffferent settings: Automatic, Portrait, Sport, Landscape, Macro, Night, & Video

We discussed what makes a good photo and I gave them my 10 Tips for Taking Better Photos:

  1. Take LOTS of photos
  2. Change your perspective.
  3. Zoom In AND Out
  4. Turn off your flash.
  5. Check your background.
  6. Use the Rule of Thirds.
  7. Position your subjects.
  8. Read your camera's manual.
  9. Tell the story.

Then they headed out on assignment.  Each group was supposed to take 5 photos:

  • Portrait
  • Group of People
  • Detail
  • Landscape
  • Action

They seemed to have a lot of fun and we managed to cram a lot into one short meeting.  If we'd had more time, we would have spent some time editing and creating a project with our pictures, but we DID talk about all the cool things you can do with digital photography.

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Ghostly

Our neighborhood is starting to get their Halloween decorations out, so Ayla and Paxton have been asking again and again if we could decorate too. Last night, we made it happen.  We limit our Halloween decorating to the playroom and the front porch, though I'm sure they wish we had a huge and elaborate yard setup like many of our neighbors do.  I don't have quite that kind of commitment when we only get about 5 trick-or-treaters at our house. :)

So, for a few weeks, we have a pumpkin mantle...

And happy kids...(this accidental photo turned out to be nice and spooky!)

We've had a couple of crisp fall-like days this year...but today we're back up in the 80's and wearing shorts with the air conditioning on. :(  We'll just be thankful the air conditioning is working though!  The motor died out a couple of weeks ago, and Ben was able to replace a couple of parts and get it working again.  He's awfully handy...

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