A friend recommend a book to me called 7 - An Experimental Mutiny Against Excess by Jen Hatmaker.
As someone who does try to keep things simple and not buy into the "keeping up with the Jones''" mentality, the topic intrigued me, so I decided to read it.
Now that I have, it's weighing heavily on my mind and I've got to figure out how to apply it and process it.
Let me explain...
Here's the Amazon summary and description of the book:
American life can be excessive, to say the least. That’s what Jen Hatmaker had to admit after taking in hurricane victims who commented on the extravagance of her family’s upper middle class home. She once considered herself unmotivated by the lure of prosperity, but upon being called “rich” by an undeniably poor child, evidence to the contrary mounted, and a social experiment turned spiritual was born.
7 is the true story of how Jen (along with her husband and her children to varying degrees) took seven months, identified seven areas of excess, and made seven simple choices to fight back against the modern-day diseases of greed, materialism, and overindulgence.
Food. Clothes. Spending. Media. Possessions. Waste. Stress. They would spend thirty days on each topic, boiling it down to the number seven. Only eat seven foods, wear seven articles of clothing, and spend money in seven places. Eliminate use of seven media types, give away seven things each day for one month, adopt seven green habits, and observe “seven sacred pauses.” So, what’s the payoff from living a deeply reduced life? It’s the discovery of a greatly increased God—a call toward Christ-like simplicity and generosity that transcends social experiment to become a radically better existence.
After reading the book, not only do I feel a need to further simplify and remove several unnessary "things" from my life, but Jen's motivations for this fasting exercise have resonated with me as well -- "a less of me, more of Him" approach. Fasting in these several areas of life allows space for God to do his work, instead of me trying to do *my* plan. And we all know...I like to have a plan.
Though I realize it's contradictory to publically document your fast (fasting instructions in the bible - Matthew 1:16-18 - say you should do it privately), I enjoyed Jen Hatmaker's very candid and real diary of her experiences and since I, like her, process well via experiment and documentation, I thought I'd give it a try and document my own version of her experiment.
My Own Version - 7 Weeks of Less
There are 7 weeks between now and when I leave for Chicago with my kids. 7 stressful weeks of a summer schedule with both kids at home when I can't work as much as I'd like to, and am likely be naturally irrititable, rushed, ungrateful and frustrated. Seems like a bad time for an experiment, yes, but perhaps that's the point. Since less of me, more of Him is the whole reason for the exercise (not to mention having a more simplified life), I'm going to do it now and hope that God will give me an extra measure of peace and contentment as I make these sacrifices.
Here's my plan. I can't commit to 7 months, and I probably won't even be as extreme as Jen was in her fasts for these short 7 weeks. But here's what I will strive to do and focus on each week for 7 weeks:
Week 1 - Food (May 20 - 26)
Rather than choosing only 7 foods to eat this week, I've decided to eat only from what we have, and not buy more. This means no eating out, no picking up bananas or flour or eggs, bread, etc. from the store and no accepting food from other people. Instead, I'll be eating food from the pantry, refrigerator and freezer that we have in the house right now. This would have been easier at the beginning of the month when we had recently been shopping. However, we have not been shopping in a week or so and *are* currently out of several things, so I imagine I will have to sacrifice plenty. In fact, I think we're almost out of coffee. That's serious.
I also will not eat any food after 8pm. Liquids only. The snacking fool in me will surely feel this sacrifice.
In addition to not eating anything we don't already have and not eating after 8pm, I'm going to be in charge of dinners this week, which is not normally one of my jobs on weekdays (yes, let's all do a GIANT cheer for a husband who cooks). But in an effort to not force Ben & the kids into my experiment, I will come up with and cook dinners this week instead of forcing Ben to consider my experiment before planning meals.
*Note - I will replenish food for the rest of the family if necessary, but won't let myself partake in those items.
Week 2 - Possessions (May 27 - June 2)
We have 10 rooms in our house, plus a garage - all full of stuff. A week is not even close to enough time to prune out everything we could, so I'm going to focus on getting rid of at leat 7 things (hopefully WAY more) in these 7 spaces:
- Kids Rooms
- My Office
- Closets (particularly the front hall closet & Paxton's closet, which is used for storage)
In addition to getting rid of all this stuff, I will NOT let anything new (for me) to come INTO the house.
Week 3 - Clothes (June 3 - 9)
I will choose 7 items of clothing to wear this week. That's it. Wash and wear. All week long. Underwear & socks don't count. The only jewelry allowed are my wedding rings. No makeup (ouch). Hair gel is allowed.
- pink ribbed tank top
- black & pink running shorts
- black sundress
- blue sundress
- turquoise ribbed tank top (changed to white camisole tank)
- tennis shoes (changed to turquoise dress)
- flip flops (add tennis shoes. Jen Hatmaker counted two pairs of shoes as one item...so will I!)
I will also take inventory of my clothes and try to get rid of as much as possible. I've done this recently, so I'm curious how much more I can prune.
I feel like this week won't be too hard (though kind of boring). Since it's summertime, I won't need things like jackets, hats, jeans, sweaters, etc. Having only one set of workout clothes is going to be the hardest. That will require daily laundering. And I'm going to miss wearing earrings.
Dang. And I just realized I'm scheduled to drive to Nashville this weekend for a bachelorette party. No makeup & no jewelry? Jazz.
Week 4 - Waste (June 10 - 17)
Reduce, Reuse and Recycle. This week I will find ways to be green and more environmentally aware. I like to do these things and regularly practice a lot of "greener" things, but know I can improve and make better choices such as:
- Drive less (ie. exercise at home instead of the rec if I don't have any other errands to run, combine errands to one outing)
- Use fewer napkins, paper towels, and other one-time-use conveniences like zip lock bags, plastic bags, etc.
- Recycle more. Find a place to recycle glass especially and be more diligent about getting papers, cardboard, plastic & aluminum to the recycling bin instead of the trash
- Think of second (or third or fourth) uses for items before they become trash
- Fix things that might otherwise be thrown away.
- Save energy and resources by turning off electronics, lights, the water, etc. when not in use.
- Take out the trash & recycling, roll it to the street & back, etc. Normally this is something I leave for Ben to do..I'll take responsibility for it this week as a physical and visual reminder of the waste we produce.
Week 5 - Shopping (June 18 - 23)
I confess, I had to save this week for after Ayla's birthday party. I'm simply going to have to make several purchases to get that done and taken care of. But once that's over...
7 days of no spending - on anything other than bills that are due. Plus, I want to find places to cut spending. I guess I better be sure the car is full of gas before this week starts!
I don't even know if this week is going to be possible. I'll reevaluate this "fast" and make more specific rules closer to that week. Regardless of the specifics, I'll try to be aware of how often I spend a little here, a little there and how much that adds up to.
Week 6 - Media (June 24 - 30)
- No Facebook (except SignsbyAndrea-related)
- No Pinterest checking and surfing.
- No blog reading.
- No television.
- No Netflix or Hulu.
- No radio.
- Just telephone, email and texts for communication.
I'm actually looking forward to this week. I spend entirely too much time surfing the web, reading blogs and checking pinterest and facebook again and again and again and again.
Week 7 - Stress (July 1 - 7)
Ha! This should be interesting, because it's the week I'll be packing and getting myself and the kids ready for a month-long trip to Chicago to visit with family and live out of a suitcase, sleeping in campers, hotels and basements. If planning for a 4 week trip with two children across the country with a business to run while you're gone doesn't sound stressful, I don't know what does.
To reduce stress during this time, I want to try a variation of what Jen Hatmaker did with several set-aside times throughout the day to pray and refocus. I'm not sure I can do all "Seven Sacred Pauses", but I'm going to commit to four of them and each day I'm going to dedicate 5 minutes to each prayer - which I realize is nowhere close to an hour, but these are baby steps:
- (7:00 am) The Awakening Hour: Remembering God's goodness and complete control over my life and trusting in Him.
- (11:00 am) The Hour of Illumination: Honoring Jesus' sacrifice on the cross and recommitting to giving my life away in service, love, and peace.
- (2:00 pm) The Hour of Wisdom: Praying for wisdom and perspective.
- (6:00 pm) The Twilight Hour: Expressing gratitude and serenity during the witching hours.
I think I'll set alarms.
At the end of each week, I'll compile my journaled experiences and thoughts and share them
I hope you'll join me in this experiment if you feel inclined to do so. Read the book and come up with your own variation of the experiment. or just let it adjust your perspective on the abundance of stuff in our American priveliged world. However you participate, I believe you'll be positively affected.
This Mother's Day, looking for a family activity (and a good snack) I thought we'd try out this Auntie Anne's copycat recipe for making pretzels. I found it on Pinterest (no surprise), and it sounded like it would be worth a try.
So...despite the fact that I'm terrible at reading recipes and made at least 5 errors that I know of (too much butter, forgot the oil, not quite enough powdered sugar, don't know how to activate yeast and no parchment paper), they turned out VERY tasty.
They don't LOOK anything like Auntie Anne's pretzels...but who cares? They were yummy. :)
It's teacher appreciation week at Paxton's school, and BOY do I appreciate those teachers! :)
Each day has a theme, so I tried to comply as much as possible:
- Monday: "Cards of Love" - a super-cute free teacher appreciation printable from Balancing Home
- Tuesday: "Pamper the Teacher Day" - scented hand sanitizer from the $1 bins at Target
- Wednesday: "Bouquets of Love" - hand-made fabric flower pins
- Thursday: "Special Luncheon" (no gift necessary)
- Friday: "Sweet Treats" - whoops! I better make cookes for Friday!
The tutorial for making the fabric flower pins can be found here. Though this time, instead of cutting flowers, I just cut circles - same result, easier cutting!
Next, I found this adorable free Teacher Appreciation printable last week and thought it would be perfect for the "cards of love" day.
I downloaded it - which gave me this (8" x 10) print in gray and white.
Next, I opened the PDF file in Photoshop Elements and used the used the paint bucket tool to change the background to teal to match my pins & the hand sanitizer labels.
Then I used a "wallets" action from The Coffee Shop Blog to turn one image into 9 wallet-sized cards.
Then I printed them, cut them out, rounded the corners and signed Paxton's name to the back.
Finally, I added punched star-shaped tags to the hand-sanitizer, and called it a gift. Easy Peasy.
Here's a look at last year's Teacher Appreciation Gift: Chapstick Pockets
I'm guest-posting over at Crayon Freckles today in an "In Her Shoes" feature...go check it out!
What is the most challenging part of being the type of mom you are?
What's the most rewarding?
Watching them develop their own unique personalities has been pretty stinkin' remarkable.
My son loves guitars, music and singing. We don't know where that obsession came from (neither of us play instruments, unless you count an .mp3 player), but if he's a rock-n-roll icon one day, I'll have the home videos to prove he started at age 2.
In you opinion, what's the most important value(s) parents can instill in their children?
I place a high value on encouraging my kids to have independence and confidence. Even if the first few steps are tough or scary, I want them to know that if they try something, they might suprise themselves and realize they CAN do it after all. Whether that's un-packing and hanging their backpacks up at the end of the school day or riding the swings at the school carnival, I want them to believe they're capable.
If your children could describe you in 3 words, which ones would they pick?
Perhaps I don't want to know! :) Maybe I'm safe since their vocabularies are limited at this age. I think they'd probably tell you that I like to make signs, take pictures, and drink coffee. They'd be right.
After 10 years of article writing, coordinating and publishing, it's finally time for me to step down as the editor and publisher at Scrapjazz and pass the job on to someone new. My new business Signs by Andrea has taken off and is demanding more and more of my time these days. After a lot of thought and consideration, it's a smart choice for my business and family.
When Ben and I launched Scrapjazz on April 1st, 2002, I never would have dreamed of where it would take us, the people we'd cross paths with and the experiences we'd get to have. It's definitely a notable milestone in my life to pass the torch. Let's take a little walk down memory lane, shall we?
December 2001 - We purchased TheMemoryBarn.com for a mere $250 to turn it into our crazy idea of Scrapjazz - the scrapbooking megasite. It took months of planning and building, but we were young with no cable TV!
April 1, 2002 - We launched Scrapjazz.com to the public. That was also my birthday and I've had to share my day for the past 10 years! We probably should have re-thought that launch date since it often meant I had a lot of work to do on my birthday like changing out all kinds of sponsors, releasing new layout galleries and publishing new articles on the 1st of every month for years. But I digress...
October 2002 - We released our first product - the Scrap Tutor CD tutorials (which are now available for free online!). Holy jazz that was a lot of work. Just think! These days anyone can upload a video tutorial to YouTube! We were so ahead of our time. :)
Let's just say it was a huge relief when we were able to mail back all the contibutors' layouts. We were SO stressed that our basement would flood or the house would burn or something terrible would happen & ruin them all before we could send them back to the artists.
2004 - And then we released a second Scrap Tutor CD...I forget when. We were working so hard those days it's all a blur!
May 2004 - I quit my part-time job to work on Scrapjazz full time. Ben was already developing and working for SJ full time and it needed me there too.
September 2004 - Apparently, I wasn't enough. We hired a copy editor to double-check our work and edit all of our writers articles. Thank you Karina! Your work has been invaluable!
Over the Years - In addition to meeting all kinds of scrapbooking industry greats like Heidi Swapp, Cathy Zielske, Lisa Bearnson, Michelle Gerbrandt, Stacy Julian, and product designers from hundreds of scrapbooking companies, I was blessed to meet several of my "team" in person at scrapbooking events, conferences and chance meetings.
That was my favorite. All these girls have been such great friends to me over the years and I've loved watching several of them become huge icons in the industry!
April 2006 - And this was like the BEST. WEEKEND. EVER. Thanks to Monique and the Scrap Etc. girls!
June 2006 - We struck a deal we couldn't refuse. Our very good friends at Scrapbook.com were interested in buying Scrapjazz. We loved them. They loved us. And we had a baby on the way. Literally. I was having contractions during my my last conference call to to transfer my duties to Scrapbook.com and Ayla was born the next morning.
But that wasn't my last hurrah with Scrapjazz! :) While Ben moved on to other topics and ventures, I continued to be on the Blue Crew (design team) until January 2011 and manage the SJ Contributors, publishing articles and working with all the writers...until now.
March 2012 - I'm stepping down. Passing the torch. Moving forward. It's a big milestone. Huge really. Scrapjazz has been a part of my life for 10 years. And I've loved it. But it's time for me to focus on my next adventure.
I am so thankful to all who have played a part in my Scrapjazz world! Blue Crew members, SJ Contributors, product manufacturers, teachers, designers, and Scrapjazz members.
You have all been such a joy to work with and get to know over the years and together you have made such amazing contributions to the scrapbooking industry by sharing your talents, ideas and projects. Thank you so much for making my job easy and fun to do! I look forward to watching the life of Scrapjazz and the scrapbooking industry continue to grow and evolve.
Since it's what I do and love, I think it's important to do my best to support other mom-based businesses with a handmade twist. So when offered the opportunity to review this adorable little etsy shop called Burlap + Blue, I jumped at the chance.
Burlap + Blue specializes in cake stands, dessert pedestals and home decor with a vintage-inspired feel. And Linda, the shop owner has a great eye for vintage and shabby-chic, as you can see from her blog. She even has some great DIY tutorials:
|Shabby Flower Pillow||Burlap + Ruffles Ottoman||Wood + Felt Buntings|
This particular black and white damask dessert pedestal in her shop caught my eye right away.
It's made from combining a gorgeous patterned ceramic plate and a painted metal candlestick.
Together, they create this beautiful, delicate stand that says "I'm special."
I envision it proudly supporting a gorgeously decorated scrumptious cupcake for a special birthday, tiny little cheese cubes at a party buffet, or a perfectly wrapped little present with a pretty bow. But for today, a few oatmeal cookies will have to do. :) Don't worry, they're yummy too!
Check out some of the other great hand-crafted products that Linda has in her Burlap + Blue Etsy Shop!
How cute are those customized coasters? And the clock? Love it!
I'll bet you'll find a special piece in her store that speaks to you. If you do..use coupon code signsbyandrea for 15% off - expires 3/22/12.
You're welcome. Happy shopping!
I've been getting antsy. When we moved into this house almost 5 years ago, we had no interest in painting. After all, we had *just* spent 2 years repainting and updating every surface of our old house, plus we had a 1 year old kid to take care of. So, we've had the flat brown paint on every wall in this house ever since we moved in. Now it's full of scratches, dents, holes and marks - most of which we've made, I'll admit.
But I tell you what, if Pinterest doesn't make you want to repaint every room (and thing) in your house, you must not be pinning enough!
So, I made myself a little "Living Room" pinboard and tried to be very systematic and realistic about the color schemes I could use, while trying not to buy much more than paint and maybe recovering a couple of pillows. While I may change out lamps, the rug & curtains at some point, I wanted to start with something that works with what I've already got. Which is this: white bookshelves, navy furniture, and green rug & curtains.
First, I picked out a bunch of light gray swatches, because even though *I* love the idea of turquois-y walls, I was pretty sure Ben wouldn't...and those red floors might not do so well anyhow with such a bright and dominant color. We agreed on a swatch that seemed to contrast enough with the white trim, but wasn't too dark or tinted any strange color.
Then I came up with this:
Working with the navy couch, white bookshelves & trim, green curtains and reddish floors, I added gray walls (using the color from my swatch) and some turquoise accents to make this color scheme.
Then I played around with some of the actual elements in the room, including two large paintings we have and put this idea board together (no, that's not my child in the photo...just someone who has the same Expedit shelves & a navy couch - convenient, eh?!):
Then I painted. It only took a day. Then I put everything back into place so we could decide if we like it or not:
Why do the walls look baby blue? I don't know. Because things on your computer screen never turn out quite the same in real life. Actually, even in this photo they look more gray than they seem to look in real life. *sigh*
MY VIEW: (from my office chair)
I do REALLY love the Expedit shelves put together on a corner like this. Like a little mini-library that fills this side of the room quite well.
My general feelings so far about this new paint color:
- I like it better than the brown with the red floors.
- I'm not sure about the green. I might want a large gray fluffy rug instead and maybe some charcoal gray curtains.
- I'd like to replace the lampshade with a circular drum shade.
- I need a cool piece of furniture to put our TV on - painted white, or dark gray, I think.
- I need some turquoise accents!
- Should I have gone with a darker shade that looks less blue?
- I think the color should extend into my office, the entryway and upstairs hallway. But I don't think this particular color would work in the kitchen/playroom area of the house.
I like how it looks with our "Dot Calm" painting:
I'm open to suggestions and feedback! What do you think?
Brezina Refinishing Review - Birmingham, AL
My grandparents bought a beautiful set of maple furniture for my mom and aunt when they were young. A dresser & mirror, two secretary desks, a lingerie chest and a set of bunk beds. If there were night stands, I'm not aware of it!
Anyhow, my mom inherited the bunk beds, dresser and one of the secretary desks when she moved out on her own (or sometime in her young adult life), which means that for most of my life, *I* used them as my bedroom furniture.
They'd been beat up, scratched, stained, dented, and even had a LOT of stickers put all over them. But still, they remained sturdy pieces of furniture. We had the dresser refinished as a wedding present when Ben and I got married 11 years ago, and it now resides in Ayla's room. As does one of the twin beds, which has since been painted with white laquer paint.
But the secretary desk that I love so dearly has unfortunately sat in our garage taking up space and collecting dust for 11 years until we were ready to spend the money to have it refinished. We waited and waited and discussed it and stewed over it every time we cleaned out the garage. Finally, this year, I decided it was time to either fix it up and use it somewhere in the house or let it go.
Well, I couldn't let it go.
I knew it would look so great in our kitchen and help keep all the mail and papers at bay that seem to collect on the island. But...I'd only like it *IF* it was painted, not stained. With all the red wood floors in our kitchen, the wood finish just didn't look quite right. But imagine it all painted black...now THAT would be sharp!
Originally I was going to try and paint it myself. That illusion lasted about 10 minutes when I told Ben about my big revelation and he said "you're not doing this yourself." He was right. This desk has an insane amount of nooks and crannies and I'm not known for my detailed precision when it comes to stuff like this. Oh, and I've never done any refinishing before so I have zero experience.
So off to the professionals I went. Brezina Refinishing was recommended to me by a local friend, so I called for an estimate, was not completely shocked by the price, and decided to just go for it.
Brezina Refinishing (Tony Lee)
4915 5th Ave S
Birmingham, AL 35222
(Be sure to tell Tony that Andrea Steed sent you!)
I asked Tony for a black satin finish with slight distressing. I was VERY pleased!
He did just the perfect amount of distressing around the edges so that the original wood peeks through. Plus, check out that shiny brass hardware all spiffed up!
He finished every piece of it, inside & out, front and back (since the back is open to our playroom downstairs). It even got three new knobs for the inside drawers (since I was so resourcefully using a paper clip - yikes.
Even the inside shelves have some neat distressing marks that almost make it look like it's *actually* worn down that way.
And the chair looks just as good! Check it out:
Ahh...love it. Working with Tony at Brezina Refinishing was a joy. I would absolutely recommend him for any wood refinishing work. I even got to see some samples of cool furniture he's restored and re-vamped in his workshop and home. He does fantastic work. Plus, I caught him during a slow season, so he was able to have my desk delivered to me only a week and a half after I brought it to him. Unbelievable!
I'm so glad to finally have this desk out of the garage and into the house! Yay!
Next on the bedroom furniture refinishing list -- turning that other twin headboard and footboard into a bench for the entryway. Something along these lines...maybe in a color this time though! I think I'll probably let Brezina Furniture tackle that project too. :)
I've made a few of these baby's first year albums for family and friends, and thought I'd post a quick little tutorial for how to make them. They make great baby shower gifts or even a good way to get an easy album for your own kids made before the baby is born! Plus, it's easy to fill in and keep up with!
Start with a 3-ring binder album. I like the We R Memory Keepers Faux Leather albums with a bookplate spine. This one is navy, though it looks black in the photo.
Next, pick a patterned paper collection to use throughout the book. For this album, I used the Basic Grey Oliver Collection. The collection pack comes with some alphabet stickers and themed stickers as well.
Create a front page. I like to leave a photo mat for a 5 x 7 photo. I like to think it'll be filled in with a newborn photo.
Each month of the year gets a calendar journaling page. I just made a template in Microsoft Word, added the correct numbers for the month, and then printed it on gray cardstock.
Once all the pages are printed, to make it a little more handmade I add a stamped month & year and a few strips of patterned paper. These pages are housed in regular 8.5" x 11" page protectors.
Next, for each month, I make double-sided journaling tags, and fill in the spaces of a 2-up photo sleeves page protector. Each tag gets a journaling stamp & some patterned paper details. Later, the tags can be filled in with journaling information about the photos that are added from that month.
The last page for each month is a printed "milestones" page to record important details like height, weight, eating and sleeping habits, etc. This page is also printed on gray cardstock with patterned paper details. I made the template for it in Microsoft Word. For this particular album, I used my Silhouette to cut the numbers for each month as well.
All that's left is a "one" page at the end of the book. Again, I left a photo mat for a 5 x 7 photo to be added later.
It's a pretty easy-to-make, assembly-line style album and can be completed in a couple of days. Since it's handmade and can be personalized to match the decor for any nursery or with the baby's name, etc., it makes a special gift.
Here are some other versions of the album that I've made before:
You may notice a few changes around here this week! A.Steed's.Life got a little facelift! Apparently my uncontrollable urge to rearrange all the rooms in my house at the beginning of the year extends to my virtual spaces as well! :)
While I work on getting everything back into place and spruced up, please be sure to let me know if you run into any problems accessing posts, logging in, or commenting, etc.! Thanks for visiting!