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Inspired recently by the really cool white pumpkin w/black lettering trend, my sisters-in-law and I had a girls night and made our own versions.
Here's how we did it:
Peel back the excesss vinyl, leaving the lettering and design.
Then press the transfer paper to the design so that you can place it easily on the pumpkin. We used large artificial white pumpkins (purchased at 50% off from Michaels.)
Gently peel back the transfer paper and press the vinyl onto the pumpkin, revealing your design.
We decided to add a thin coat of matte Mod Podge over the design, to be sure it stayed put (since the adhesive vinyl didn't seem to be well adhered to the pumpkin. Plus, we thought we might display our pumpkins outside and wanted to help keep them from peeling.
I was so happy with how they turned out, and amazed at how easy it was to do! Here's a look at all three of our creations:
We aren't the only ones with awesome black and white pumpkins. Here are some versions around the web that inspired our evening:
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Friday was a gorgeous day, so Paxton and I sat out on the front porch decorating for fall.
I dug through the garage to find a set of four pots to create this stacked potted design (just put a smaller pot upside down inside each of the two pots you can see in order to have a strong base for teh next pot and the pumpkin to sit on. Then I filled the empty space inside the pots with grocery bags and covered it with a piece of burlap fabric before adding the little pumpkins and flowers.
The pumpkin is decorated with a vinyl "S" & spider decal (tutorial on that coming soon), and I decided that since those candlestick holders had sat in a bucket in the garage for several months, it wouldn't hurt anything to use them in some outside decor. :)
I made the wreath with a metal hanger and strips of frayed burlap, following this great tutorial.
And then I added a seasonal 3ft custom "Trick or Treat?" sign over the door. I think I'll replace it with a Thanksgiving-themed sign in November and then a Christmas-themed sign in December and continue to change it out as the year progresses.
For a Friday morning sitting on the front porch enjoying the weather and using all stuff we already had on-hand, I think we did okay. :) Ayla was excited to see it when she got home from school and now likes to walk in through the front door whenever we get home from being out. :)
I don't do much seasonal decorating around the house, but when Halloween and Christmas roll around, I am willing to pull out my bucket of decorations. The kids have a blast seeing all the little goodies that have been boxed away for a year, and it's a nice transition into the holiday season. So, even though our little plastic pumpkins and homemade decor are pretty basic...we do make an effort. :) And I say "we" because Ayla and Paxton were VERY involved in the process...they even helped me clean the house so that we could bring in the decorations.
Here's what we ended up with for our fireplace mantle in the playroom this year for Halloween:
My altered halloween house is my favorite decoration for this season, and the glittery pumpkin and "boo" garland is definitely a kid-favorite - especially since Paxon's favorite color is orange right now (he points it out everywhere).
I framed my "Being a Family" poster and included it on the mantel too (it & the other photos sit there all year).
In the kitchen, we went for a more subtle decorating technique -- but I LOVE the element of surprise. Check out our gallery wall and all the little masked friends! I saved the black cardstock masks I used from last year so that all I had to do was find a photo that fit and stick 'em to the glass.
Plus, I made this trick or treat sign and have a special place in mind for it on our front porch (pictures coming soon!):
Since the weather finally cooling off this week, it's definitely starting to feel a little more like fall around here! Might as well look like it too. :)
Except now Ayla and Paxton think Halloween is MUCH closer than it is. They don't really understand that it's still a whole month away...They've been walking around the house carrying little pumpkin bags, knocking on each door and saying "trick or treat" and handing each other toy cars and pretend candy. Silly kids.
Several weeks ago, I borrowed this book from the library - The Curly Girl Handbook by Lorraine Massey. I was in desperate need of a haircut, was wearing a lot of ponytails, the weather was humid and atrocious, and I had read about this "Curly Girl Method" and figured I'd see what it was all about.
The handbook convinced me to give it a try - for at least 6 weeks. I mean, look how pretty those curls are! I was wearing my hair curly most days anyhow with all the insane Alabama humidity, so why not try to make it look better when I did wear it that way? Plus, it looked like the process would be pretty easy...just a little odd, since you have to quit using shampoo.
Okay, let me explain...
The Curly Girl Method
Here are the basics of what I did:
- Get a haircut. I needed a trim, badly. It had been about a year since my last haircut.
- Quit using shampoo - cold turkey. Evidently sulfates are a big no-no for curly girls.
- Use a light conditioner - I used Suave Naturals Conditioner - just on my fingertips, and vigorously massage my scalp with it. This is supposed to remove all the oils, dirt, hair product, dead skin, etc.
- Rinse hair thoroughly, starting to detangle with my fingers.
- Apply a deeper moisturizing conditioner - I used Giovanni Conditioner - from the bottom up covering the ends first and moving upward in a scrunching motion.
- Comb through with a wide-toothed comb to remove tangles and loose hairs.
- Scrunch again and let conditioner sit on your hair for a couple of minutes.
- Rinse hair gently, but not completely, leaving much of the conditioner in it.
- Squeeze hair dry in the shower as much as possible, still using that scrunching motion.
- Use a t-shirt to scrunch the curls dry, squeezing out more water. According to the book, terry cloth towels can cause a lot of breakage, but cotton doesn't.
- Apply gel (lots of gel) from the bottom up in a scrunching motion (curly girls REALLY like the scrunching) - I started off using Suave Naturals Gel, but later switched to LA Looks (about week 4) and liked it much better.
- Let hair finish air drying.
- About an hour later, I would turn my head upside down and shake my hair out, scrunching the curls to "release the gel cast" from the gel.
So that's the method I used...and here's what I thought of it and how it worked:
Week By Week Results
First...this is the hair I was aiming for. Realistic? Maybe not (especially since she has about a foot of length on me and is some sort of model). But we all start with a wish, right?
Before: These photos were taken just after my haircut and my last shampooing, with just some mousse scrunched in my hair. I let it air dry. As you can see, it's kind of wavy, a little bit frizzy, but not so awful, the curl is just a little uneven.
1 Week: Not liking this. My hair feels a little greasy, my scalp itches, and I haven't figured out how to squeeze the water out of it very well after I wash it. Curlier? Yeah, I guess...but it feels kind of icky. And I felt like I was getting some odd looks from people who see me often. My guess is, since they didn't say they liked it, they thought my hair looked crazy. :)
2 Weeks: I (and my hair) are more used to the process now - not using shampoo and using lots of conditioner and lots gel. I can see that my hair looks a little bit bouncier and the curl is more even. I'm having a hard time not running my hands through it though, and feel like it's ALWAYS tangled. Since I used to straighten my hair about once or twice a week, I'm really missing that smooth feeling - at least once in a while. This week I did get a couple of compliments though on my curls, which helped me press on.
3 Weeks: This week I started noticing a little bit of dandruff and what looked like product buildup at my roots Nothing major, but I switched up my conditioning routine to apply less of the deeper moisturizing conditioner to the top of my head, and concentrated mostly on the middle and ends. That way the roots just got cleansed and massaged, but not overly conditioned. That appeared to help.
This photo (below) was taken at about 3 weeks into my experiment. Seeing the photo was the first time I thought - Wow! My curls actually look pretty!
4 Weeks: I would REALLY like to shampoo my hair this week (about this time I probably should have tried a warm water and baking soda rinse to remove some product buildup), and I'm dying to just brush it and wear it straight for a few days. But, I don't. A six week experiment is a six week experiement. So, instead, I start shopping for a different gel since it still gets pretty frizzy by the end of the day.
5 Weeks: I switched to LA Looks hair gel this week, and although it makes my curls a little crispier, I think it makes them much more definined, less frizzy, and a little "lighter" looking. I did a one-day trial with some Suave Mousse (and no gel) - and it was Frizz City! Back to the gel I went...
6 weeks: I spent most of this week dreaming of straightening my hair and being able to run my fingers through it without them getting stuck. No joke. I actually had a dream about using my flat-iron. That said, I DO like the way my hair looks when it's curly now and I think experimenting with this haircare method has helped me cultivate my curls a little better.
While doing this exeriment, I always liked the way my hair looked better when I showered in the morning and let it air dry, rather than when I let it air dry at night and then slept on it. On those days I would use a spray bottle with water to wet my hair and re-scrunch it, which worked fairly well, but since I couldn't really comb or brush through it first, it always felt more tangled on those days.
I still have a lot to learn, and there are lots of great recipes that I'd like to try - such as a lavender mist spray to revitalize your curl, or a brown sugar scrub to exfoliate your scalp, and a baking soda rinse to remove product buildup. Maybe I'll try those sometime soon. Here are some great recipes if you want to try them - Curly Concoctions.
VERDICT: Is it possible to be a partial curly girl? I'm going to continue working on finding a formula that works for me. Right now, I'm thinking it will include an occasional sulfate-free shampoo and occasional flat-ironing too -- even if the true curly girls think that's from the Devil! However , I do have a renewed love for LA Looks hair gel - which is a major throwback to my junior high perm days. :)
But tomorrow - I'm straightening my hair and I can't WAIT to run my fingers through it again!
Curly Girl Products:
Update: Here are links to some curly girl products that have been mentioned and recommended in the comments below from fellow curly girls:
- WEN products
- Aveda Be Curly Products
- DevaCurl Products
- Mixed Chicks Products
- Sebastian Potion 9 Wearable Treatment
- Kinky Curly...Knot Today
- Redken Contour Shaping Lotion
- Moroccan Oil Curl Control Cream
- Trader Joe's Nourish Spa Balance Moisturizing Conditioner
- Loreal Sulfate Free Products
- Organix Brazilian Keratin Treatment
- Nature's Gate - Tea Tree Calming Shampoo
This post has gotten WAY more attention than I ever would have imagined, so I think it deserves an update. :) After this experiment, I tried a few of the suggestions people have mentioned here. Some things I liked:
I loved how a white distilled vinegar rinse & water solution made my scalp feel and how well it removed all the buildup from the conditioner and gel.
In the same fashion, a sulfate free shampoo works really well too. I've recently started washing with Nature's Gate - Tea Tree Calming Shampoo. That seems to help with removing the product buildup and significanly reducing dandruff and itchiness I had started to notice when I began this experiment.
One commenter recommended the Ouidad.com web site for great curly girl products and tutorials. I checked it out and tried the "rake & shake" method they recommend as a way of detangling and applying gel while it's wet, and then "setting" the curls with a shaking method. I tried that today and I've been SO pleased with the results of that very easy-to-do technique! Here's a look at my hair today after trying it out for the first time (click images for larger pictures):
Rake & Shake Method -
Section your wet hair (I did the bottom section, then middle section & finally the top section) and secure it with a clip.
Then put a dollop of gel in your hands and apply it to your hair in 2-3 inch sections using a raking motion to detangle the hair.
Rake to the ends of each section and then gently shake the hair. This lets it set into it's own natural curl pattern. Continue throughout the rest of your hair by section.
When finished, scrunch the curls gently with your towel (or cotton t-shirt) to enhance the curl and remove excess moisture. You can then diffuse dry or air dry. It left my hair with un-frizzy ringlet curls all day long!
Last night I had the opportunity to visit with several of the women from our church in an inter-generational discussion about parenting. As a woman with small children myself - I was ALL ears to hear what these women, who were at all different stages of the parenting journey, would say in answers to these questions:
- What was one of your biggest challenges or regrets in your parenting journey?
- What would you do differently? Or exactly the same?
Their responses were genuine, from-the-heart, and 100% from the voice of experience. I am so thankful they were willing to share their personal experiences with me and each other. What a huge blessing to have such a wealth of knowledge, love, and experience to draw from. Here's a brief summary of what they shared as the most important lessons they've learned through the years:
Put your husband and your marriage first.
You are in charge. It's okay to say "I told you so."
Treat children as individuals and avoid comparing them to each other.
Let them know that if they make mistakes, no matter how big, they can always come home.
Know their friends. And their friends' parents. Be involved at school. Be the carpool driver. Hear the gossip.
Remember how you felt at their age.
Accept that they will be who they will be. You can't change their personalities.
Put the word of God in their hearts. Talk about God. Recite bible verses, have family devotionals, pray with them.
Be present. When you're with them, BE WITH THEM (not working on your mental to-do lists).
Learn their love language - and communicate with it.
Make them open to people of all cultures, races, and disabilities.
Have patience and be persistent.
I'll do my best. I might need a few reminders along the way though.
My cousin Yasmin is getting married in a few days - in Israel, where she grew up and has lived most of her life. She's my only girl cousin (out of 10 grandkids) and so we've always shared a special bond - even though we only see each other one in a blue moon.
Since I couldn't be there for the wedding, I'm having to live vicariously through my mom's photos on Facebook, which though it isn't at ALL the same, will have to suffice.
I wanted to send Yasmin a special gift though to let her know I was thinking about her and to celebrate her new married life. So of course I decided to send her a handmade personalized sign for her and her new husband. Obviously, an English version wouldn't be quite right for their home in Israel, so with the help of my aunt (to get the spelling just right), I designed a Hebrew version of my "First Names w/Wedding Date" sign for them:
1ft x 6in - Black - Custom Personalized Sign Design
The large font is their new last name and beneath it reads their first names. Remember, Hebrew is read from right to left!
A while back, I made myself a jewelry organizer for my closet from a picture frame, wire and fabric. But, after dropping earrings on the floor over and over and over again (because of the fabric backing & wire not having enough space between them) I decided to give it another shot with a new design.
I went digging in my garage and came back with two metal cube panels, several nails and some ribbon.
I liked the idea of the metal cube pieces, because if you face them the right way, the cross-bars leave a natural space between them and the wall that allows the earrings to hang freely. Plus, using the grid means I can easily stagger the earrings so I can see them all well and they won't get tangled up together.
I used ribbon to tie two panels together and secured the top two corners with screws. The bottom is secured with one screw to hold it still.
Since this grid solution didn't work for my necklaces, I simply added some staggered nails directly to the wall.
Let's hope this solution is a little more user-friendly! I'm not the only one looking for a great jewelry organizing solution. Check out these great ideas that I found on pinterest:
While I was out of town for the month of July, traveling with the kids, Ben enjoyed 3 1/2 weeks of solitude at home. That's a lot of time for itty bitty handyman projects!
Among many nice little surprises, I came home to shiny new doorknobs on all our outside doors (yes, he changed the locks while I was gone!), new shelves in the pantry, and a brand new mailbox. And, if you have seen our old mailbox, you know that this was a WAY overdue project - as in we probably should have done it the day we moved in 4 years ago.
So, since he very nicely waited for me to get home to add numbers (because he knew I'd want to paint my own street number sign like the one by our front door), I figured it was time I got on that project before another 4 years passed. We were looking for a make-it-better, but it-doesn't-need-to-be-perfect look, so within a 5-minute conversation we made a quick design decision and I got to work.
Here's a look at our old mailbox, the new mailbox I came home to, and then new mailbox w/a snazzy new paint job on the post & a brand new street number sign.
Though I certainly wouldn't be opposed to some color at the street (I do love these colorful mailboxes), Ben is a little more conservative in his outdoor decor choices, so we opted for a make-it-blend, not too fancy monochromatic look. So all I did was make two beveled 1ft street number signs, give the post a new coat of paint, and slapped that baby back together. I started at noon, and was done with the whole shebang by dinner (didn't want to miss any mail!)
Yes, some flowers would look nice at the bottom of the post. Maybe someday! One project at a time...
Here's some more mailbox curb appeal for your day!
- turquoise & red mailbox
- unusual mailboxes (some silly stuff here!)
- mailbox makeover (I won't lie...she did it better than me!)
Except now I really want one of these:
How's your mailbox looking these days?
A few weeks ago I learned how to make a large t-shirt into a fitted tee shirt. Very cool, right? But...I still had some trouble figuring out how to make the sleeves look right since the REALLY big t-shirts had such low shoulder seams. Plus, the necks seemed awfully high and confining on some of the shirts I tried it on.
Since I'm NOT a seamstress of ANY kind, I went looking for some solutions and landed on this scoop-neck version that I think might be just what I needed.
Here's what I started with and the link to the tutorial for how to get from a large t-shirt to a fitted t-shirt:
It worked great with my navy fire department shirt, but with this shirt, I wasn't happy with the neckline or the sleeves, which meant I hadn't worn it yet and wasn't sure whether I liked it. So, I figured it couldn't hurt to get a little scissor happy on it again in an effort to "save" it once more.
Here's how it's done:
Lay your shirt on a flat surface.
Make a small snip on each shoulder about an inch from the collar. You can also put the shirt on and mark where you want to cut, but I've found that about an inch works perfectly for me, while keeping the shirt on my shoulders (instead of becoming an off-the-shoulder shirt).
I also make a cut down the center of the front collar, so that I have a mid-point to cut towards to make an even scoop across the front.
When you've finished cutting the front scoop, it looks a little like this:
Cut the back of the shirt straight across directly underneath the collar band.
Next, try on your shirt and mark where you want the length to be cut. I just used my scissors to cut a little hole on one side. (PS...I don't recommend holding a camera in the other hand while snipping! That's just for this tutorial pic!)
Lay the shirt back out on a flat surface and begin cutting across the bottom of the shirt where you marked.
I like to cut a small curve in the front, and then fold it over to match the other side.
For this shirt, I decided not re-cut the sleeves (yet), but you could cut them just after the shoulder seam to give the shirt an even more cropped-sleeve look. I'm going to try this short little sleeve out first and see what I think.
But that's it! It's significantly more comfortable with this neckline, and (I think) a little more fashionable. My husband still rolls his eyes and just sees me in a cut-up tee shirt. But that's a guy for you. :)