Curly Girl Method - Before and After

Curly Girl Method Before and AfterCurly Girl The Handbook

Several weeks ago, I borrowed this book from the library - The Curly Girl Handbook by Lorraine Massey.  I was in desperate need of a haircut, was wearing a lot of ponytails, the weather was humid and atrocious, and I had read about this "Curly Girl Method" and figured I'd see what it was all about.

The handbook convinced me to give it a try - for at least 6 weeks.  I mean, look how pretty those curls are! I was wearing my hair curly most days anyhow with all the insane Alabama humidity, so why not try to make it look better when I did wear it that way?  Plus, it looked like the process would be pretty easy...just a little odd, since you have to quit using shampoo. 

Okay, let me explain...

The Curly Girl Method

Here are the basics of what I did:

  1. Get a haircut.  I needed a trim, badly.  It had been about a year since my last haircut.
  2. Quit using shampoo - cold turkey. Evidently sulfates are a big no-no for curly girls.
  3. Use a light conditioner - I used Suave Naturals Conditioner - just on my fingertips, and vigorously massage my scalp with it.  This is supposed to remove all the oils, dirt, hair product, dead skin, etc.
  4. Rinse hair thoroughly, starting to detangle with my fingers.
  5. Apply a deeper moisturizing conditioner - I used Giovanni Conditioner - from the bottom up covering the ends first and moving upward in a scrunching motion.  
  6. Comb through with a wide-toothed comb to remove tangles and loose hairs.  
  7. Scrunch again and let conditioner sit on your hair for a couple of minutes.
  8. Rinse hair gently, but not completely, leaving much of the conditioner in it.
  9. Squeeze hair dry in the shower as much as possible, still using that scrunching motion.
  10. Use a t-shirt to scrunch the curls dry, squeezing out more water. According to the book, terry cloth towels can cause a lot of breakage, but cotton doesn't.
  11. Apply gel (lots of gel) from the bottom up in a scrunching motion (curly girls REALLY like the scrunching) - I started off using Suave Naturals Gel, but later switched to LA Looks (about week 4) and liked it much better.
  12. Let hair finish air drying.
  13. About an hour later, I would turn my head upside down and shake my hair out, scrunching the curls to "release the gel cast" from the gel.

So that's the method I used...and here's what I thought of it and how it worked:

Week By Week Results

First...this is the hair I was aiming for.  Realistic? Maybe not (especially since she has about a foot of length on me and is some sort of model). But we all start with a wish, right?

Girl with Curly Hair


Before: These photos were taken just after my haircut and my last shampooing, with just some mousse scrunched in my hair.  I let it air dry.   As you can see, it's kind of wavy, a little bit frizzy, but not so awful, the curl is just a little uneven.

Curly Girl Method - Before


1 Week:  Not liking this.  My hair feels a little greasy, my scalp itches, and I haven't figured out how to squeeze the water out of it very well after I wash it.  Curlier? Yeah, I guess...but it feels kind of icky.  And I felt like I was getting some odd looks from people who see me often.  My guess is, since they didn't say they liked it, they thought my hair looked crazy. :)

Curly Girl Method - Week 1 Results


2 Weeks:  I (and my hair) are more used to the process now - not using shampoo and using lots of conditioner and lots gel. I can see that my hair looks a little bit bouncier and the curl is more even.  I'm having a hard time not running my hands through it though, and feel like it's ALWAYS tangled.  Since I used to straighten my hair about once or twice a week, I'm really missing that smooth feeling - at least once in a while. This week I did get a couple of compliments though on my curls, which helped me press on.

Curly Girl Method - Week 2 Results


3 Weeks: This week I started noticing a little bit of dandruff and what looked like product buildup at my roots  Nothing major, but I switched up my conditioning routine to apply less of the deeper moisturizing conditioner to the top of my head, and concentrated mostly on the middle and ends.  That way the roots just got cleansed and massaged, but not overly conditioned.  That appeared to help.

Curly Girl Method - Week 3 Results

This photo (below) was taken at about 3 weeks into my experiment.  Seeing the photo was the first time I thought - Wow! My curls actually look pretty!

Curly Girl Method


4 Weeks: I would REALLY like to shampoo my hair this week (about this time I probably should have tried a warm water and baking soda rinse to remove some product buildup), and I'm dying to just brush it and wear it straight for a few days.  But, I don't.  A six week experiment is a six week experiement.  So, instead, I start shopping for a different gel since it still gets pretty frizzy by the end of the day.

Curly Girl Method - Week 4 Results


5 Weeks: I switched to LA Looks hair gel this week, and although it makes my curls a little crispier, I think it makes them much more definined, less frizzy, and a little "lighter" looking.   I did a one-day trial with some Suave Mousse (and no gel) - and it was Frizz City!  Back to the gel I went...

Curly Girl Method - Week 5 Results


6 weeks: I spent most of this week dreaming of straightening my hair and being able to run my fingers through it without them getting stuck.  No joke. I actually had a dream about using my flat-iron.  That said, I DO like the way my hair looks when it's curly now and I think experimenting with this haircare method has helped me cultivate my curls a little better.

Curly Girl Method - Week 6 Results


Additional Notes: 

While doing this exeriment, I always liked the way my hair looked better when I showered in the morning and let it air dry, rather than when I let it air dry at night and then slept on it.  On those days I would use a spray bottle with water to wet my hair and re-scrunch it, which worked fairly well, but since I couldn't really comb or brush through it first, it always felt more tangled on those days.

I still have a lot to learn, and there are lots of great recipes that I'd like to try - such as a lavender mist spray to revitalize your curl, or a brown sugar scrub to exfoliate your scalp, and a baking soda rinse to remove product buildup.  Maybe I'll try those sometime soon.  Here are some great recipes if you want to try them - Curly Concoctions.

VERDICT: Is it possible to be a partial curly girl?  I'm going to continue working on finding a formula that works for me.  Right now, I'm thinking it will include an occasional sulfate-free shampoo and occasional flat-ironing too -- even if the true curly girls think that's from the Devil!  However , I do have a renewed love for LA Looks hair gel - which is a major throwback to my junior high perm days. :)

But tomorrow - I'm straightening my hair and I can't WAIT to run my fingers through it again!

Curly Girl Products:
 

Update: Here are links to some curly girl products that have been mentioned and recommended in the comments below from fellow curly girls: 

Update:

This post has gotten WAY more attention than I ever would have imagined, so I think it deserves an update. :) After this experiment, I tried a few of the suggestions people have mentioned here.  Some things I liked:

  • I loved how a white distilled vinegar rinse & water solution made my scalp feel and how well it removed all the buildup from the conditioner and gel. 
     
  • In the same fashion, a sulfate free shampoo works really well too.  I've recently started washing with Nature's Gate - Tea Tree Calming Shampoo.  That seems to help with removing the product buildup and significanly reducing dandruff and itchiness I had started to notice when I began this experiment.
     
  • One commenter recommended the Ouidad.com web site for great curly girl products and tutorials.  I checked it out and tried the "rake & shake" method they recommend as a way of detangling and applying gel while it's wet, and then "setting" the curls with a shaking method.  I tried that today and I've been SO pleased with the results of that very easy-to-do technique!  Here's a look at my hair today after trying it out for the first time (click images for larger pictures):

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    Rake & Shake Method -
    Section your wet hair (I did the bottom section, then middle section & finally the top section) and secure it with a clip.  

    Then put a dollop of gel in your hands and apply it to your hair in 2-3 inch sections using a raking motion to detangle the hair. 

    Rake to the ends of each section and then gently shake the hair.  This lets it set into it's own natural curl pattern.  Continue throughout the rest of your hair by section.

    When finished, scrunch the curls gently with your towel (or cotton t-shirt) to enhance the curl and remove excess moisture.  You can then diffuse dry or air dry.  It left my hair with un-frizzy ringlet curls all day long!  


 

205 comments so far:

Kate (not verified) says: Loved this blog :) still

Loved this blog :) still deciding whether I should try the experiment. I'm quite picky and a little bit obsessive over my hair and not sure if I could deal with no washes! I think my hair is 2c? I have thin hair but lots of it so it looks thick, but it is thin towards the scalp. My hair is all different curles as I had (completely) straight hair up till I was 11 then boom. Curly. It is soft waves underneath, then tight curls atthe back and front sides of my hair. the middle is more zigzag loose curles, but this all varies each day depending on how i treated my hair.I have blonde hair as well so am prone to my frizz and dryness. I have trouble growing my hair as it seems to take so long, and my hair becomes damaged so I need to trim 2 or 3 times a year. Just had a question for any curly head out there.......I like to have a shower at night so I can sleepin abit in the morning... I have trouble with styling my hair at night (half damp) so that I can wake up and it will still look nice. Any tips?? I currently French braid it. -I have shoulder length hair by the way- but I feel like that creates too much volume in the middle half of my hair, straight ish at the bottom, then no volume at the roots. But I have also tried leaving my hair out and sleeping on it, but the curls 'shrink up' and become very short and flat by morning. Thanks.

Anna Bananna (not verified) says: Hey, Well I never believed

Hey,
Well I never believed the shampoo fast worked. Seeing what it's done for your hair though i'm trying it! It's been 3 days....I feel proud though! I love straightening my hair and I have been doing it too often for 2 years now and my back of my hairs ok but the front of my hair is straight now UGH! I hope doing the six week fast is going to help my hair! I cant wait to use some of the sweetest strongest smelling shampoo at the end of it though! hah! you are very pretty and your hair looks amazing thank you very much for posting and keeping up to doing a photo each week and showing the progression. I hope mine looks as cool as yours in 6 weeks!

Leila (not verified) says: Hi, I'm a curly from Algeria

Hi,
I'm a curly from Algeria (north africa) I precise this just to let you know that this post got attention from all over the world.
I love how your hair looks at the 4th week and all long.
the most difficult part is having curly hair produts in shops around my city (quite impossible).
once again I really love your hair in its curly form, and it would be a pleasure to be able to see your hair month after month.
thanks

Donna (not verified) says: Thanks for all of the great

Thanks for all of the great tips! I have curly type 2b hair (I think) which kind of has a mind of its own. It's about the same length and curl as yours but not as even. Tends to be more curly up front...but only on one side where it's thinner. :-( I have occasionally gotten the back to be like your hair after CG method, but w/o a lot of work it just tends drop or to hang more like your before pics only not as nice or even.

On a good day I can get it looking pretty good AT FIRST,...but here is the question that I CANNOT seem to find an answer to ANYWHERE, even on curly sites. Since trying to go natural I've been using Giovanni's light leave in conditioner, sparingly, and then Giovanni's LA gel, sparingly. Since my hair is 2b I HAVE to use a diffuser to blow dry (after nearly dry already) to get nice curls, but they always seem to fall out and no matter what I do I get the frizzies up top. But this is my biggest problem...if I follow all the curly hair "rules" for letting it dry natually, no touching, etc., my hair ALWAYS stays flat to my head and my curls are more like very uneven waves. I can't seem to get any answers on how to let my hair dry naturally and still have lift and bouncy curls. When I use a diffuser I can get some greeeeat curls, but it causes me to get frizz on top and my hair eventually falls. I can't use oils cause it just makes my hair stick flatter to my head. Pleeeeeease, if anyone has the same problem, I need advice!!!

Anonymous (not verified) says: This is what i do. Hopefully

This is what i do. Hopefully it will work for you. But I do all those steps hanging upside-down. Like i wash it upside-down. And comb it in the shower upside-down. And even apply the gel and scrunch upside-down. I find it gives my roots the "lift" they need to not lay flat against my head. Another trick I use sometimes to avoid that curly at the end flat on top problem, is to wash my hair at night just before bed and follow my normal routine. But I lay a towel (or t-shirt) on my pillow, and sleep on my back with my hair not underneath my head but untucked and above my head on the pillow. I find this provides a "weightless" environment for my curls to dry. Hope that this helps!

Anonymous (not verified) says: I do the same thing with the

I do the same thing with the towel and laying my hair above me (too bad I move around to much so most of my hair is crushed ^.^)

A product I use is Matrix Biolage smoothing shine milk. It's sorted as 'light hold' so mostly what it does is give it a nice shine and soft feel, but i'm sure you could use a stronger hold to define your curls.

Curly too (not verified) says: Love your blog. Your hair

Love your blog. Your hair looks fabulous!! My curl (and cut) is similar but your texture looks much smoother. I just started using Wen a few weeks ago but have had to use a sulfate free shampoo a couple times. It's great to have a forum for discussing techniques. I get asked by people all the time what I use or how is style my hair And I consider myself kind of a curl evangelist haha.

I will share your site as well. I let my hair air dry now that I'm growing it out so its less damaged also have gotten a Ouidad haircut a couple times (including today) which I like- I get less bulky areas now and my hair seems to look best when I shake and rake also. Or twist a few curls to control size of curl and direction around my face where I get a lot of breakage and skinny curls... If my hair looked as good as yours I don't think I'd straighten ver often!!

Alinna (not verified) says: I started the curly girl

I started the curly girl method myself but I did not use a light conditioner and I did not feel my hair washed properly, I will go and buy one. The results for your hair are obvious.

Anonymous (not verified) says: Just found this curly girl

Just found this curly girl blog post and was wondering if there were any tips for hair mor on the wavy side... My hair lost its body from dying it to much but now Ive stopped dying and putting hot irons to it. Its getting body back but its majority waves with a few curls up front and alot of poof. Any tips on making it managable or good products for wavy hair? I never seem to be able to find ones that work! would the curly girl method work on a more wavy hair type?

Anonymous (not verified) says: My hair goes from wavy to

My hair goes from wavy to curly depending on the length and I've been using the Curly Girl method for over two years now. I really like the Tresemme Naturals conditioner and have used different gels, but the Herbal Essences ones are good - I tend to change with the seasons (I'm in Canada). I also shampoo when I feel like it needs it with a Live Clean non-sulfate shampoo. One of the thing that I find really important is using a microfibre towel - really helps with the fizziness.
Hope this helps.

sharlin (not verified) says: i just found the same

i just found the same inspiration picture as you yesterday. :) my hair is just below shoulder length so i have a long way to go, too.
i read the curly girl book a few years ago and trip the no poo thing too. couldn't stand it, but use devacurl low poo and love it. i also looked up pics of celebrity curlies and melina k. is a star who has medium length hair that looks good. just ordered her product of choice. hope it works miracles. :)
i love your week 3 photo, btw.

Anna (not verified) says: I have been battling my curly

I have been battling my curly hair ALL my life!!! A couple of years ago I decided to stop fighting with it and decided to let it go curly. On my journey to figuring out what works and what doesn't I have discovered some things... I agree that regular shampoos containing sulfates are much harsher on curly hair. I tried the whole "no shampooing" trick and didn't care for it. My hair just never felt clean. However, they now have a lot of products out advertised as after care products if you have had a Brazilian blow out, reason being that sulfate and alcohol based products strip the keratin out of hair. That is what I use. And no, I haven't had a Brazilian blow out. But my hair is definitely less frizzy, my curls are more defined and my hair feels CLEAN! The trick is to pay attention to the label. "Low sulfate" and "sulfate free" are two different things. I recommend the "sulfate free" products. Sally's Beauty supply store has a nice range that is priced reasonably.

Lauren (not verified) says: I am a fellow curly girl, I

I am a fellow curly girl, I love Lorraine Massey's book. I just recently did a post about naturally curly hair & used your picture. I linked back here to this website!!! Your results are incredible.
Please visit my blog post http://www.thecraftygingerblog.com/2013/02/naturally-curly-hair.html

Kathie (not verified) says: Interesting read, thanks for

Interesting read, thanks for sharing your experience. I have naturally wavy hair and the only time I ever tried to wear it curly was on the weekends when I'm just lounging around the house (since it didn't look so great). It wasn't until I switched to Suave Professionals Almond & Shea Butter shampoo & conditioner that my hair started looking nice when I let it air dry. I then added a mixture of Vitamin E oil with Castor Oil hair & scalp conditioner to my hair and voila, no frizz curls. Despite what almost everyone else advises, I do wash my hair on a daily basis. My scalp and hair just feel disgusting if I don't and I tried the "no poo" method before and it destroyed my hair.

Anonymous (not verified) says: Hey I have HORRIBLY curly

Hey I have HORRIBLY curly hair and I recently started using Deva Curl products. They are AMAZING. I had to get a hair appointment to learn how to use them but it was definitely worth it! It's mostly the same method as your plan but their products are water based. They have shampoos that are sulfate free and I don't EVER brush my hair anymore. I have used millions of gels and they leave my hair crunchy and with white flakes but the gel in the deva curl line has never done that. Just information for other troubled heads of hair! (:

Anonymous (not verified) says: Hello. I have a question.

Hello. I have a question. Please reply! I have been doing the CG method for a month or so and my curls are a lot better. But lately, I have had to shampoo about once a week because, for some reason, my scalp has been getting oily. I use the same conditioner as you said you use. I am starting to think it's my method of applying the conditioner and rinsing it. I usually section my hair and apply the conditioner to my roots. Then I have to rinse forever. And it still feels greasy. How do you do it? and how long does it take to rinse it all away from your scalp?
Thank you.
-Hailey

Kathryn (not verified) says: Could u plz tell me how I

Could u plz tell me how I should style it for the nighttime after I shower. Btw thnx alot for curly this review I tried the curly girl method but my halter doesn't seem to change u c I have thick thick wsvy ir vurly hair not sure it changes after it dries and is quite soft but when it does it turns into a lion and the curls kind off disappear :( anyways thnx and I hope u reply

Anonymous (not verified) says: That was a great blog! Love

That was a great blog! Love the curls you now have in your hair!
I naturally have bouncy curls and always dreaded going into the store to see which product would work best in my hair.

Over the years, I noticed that these combinations work best.
I shampoo only once a week since it dries out curly hair a lot. Conditioner wise-I switch off. I use Garnier Fructis, Pantene Pro-V, and Herbal Essences- None of your frizzness. Once one bottle of conditioner is gone, I switch to another bottle. This allows my hair to not get completely used to one conditioner. If it does...HELLO FRIZZ! :/ After my shower, I immediately put detangler it in, use a wide tooth comb to comb through it, and add Pantene Pro-V Curls Mousse and LA Looks Gel to my hair.

This works very well on my hair. Anyone reading this:
Experiment with different products just like this blog. :)

all8 (not verified) says: My DD has very curly hair and

My DD has very curly hair and Jessicurl works the best for her. Most drug store hair products have silicones and other things that are bad for curly hair and make it look dirty and/or dry it out. We just found a stylist that specializes in curly hair (very rough to do here) anyway, she washed DD's head with Moptop (3 times) to get rid of the yucky build up and then used the Jessicurl Rockin' Ringlets and Confident Coils that we've tried and loved so much. She loves her hair again, and that's saying something for a 17 yr old. We're definitely going back to Jessicurl and quit wasting so much money on drug store stuff.

It's unbelievable how soft and manageable her curls are with Jessicurl. It was so dry, frizzy, and then greasy at the scalp, and now it's not. Highly recommended from a fellow curly girl.

Sue (not verified) says: Thanks for your inspirational

Thanks for your inspirational post and all the wonderful, helpful comments above. I start today. I've bought my products--Tresemme, V05, and argan oil and claimed one of my husbands t-shirts. And I'm looking forward to using some of the Curly Girl home brews when I need to remove buildup later on. They sound fun! Some years ago I tried the Wen system, but was unimpressed with the results--and it was so expensive to keep it up.

I do wonder what my colorist/haircutter is going to say--do I tell her not to use shampoo when I go next week? I'll search the interwebs for some advice on that....

Anonymous (not verified) says: Help! I'm a wavy girl trying

Help! I'm a wavy girl trying to go back to the curls I had when I was younger with this method, but my hair just feels GROSS. The no 'poo' is making the top 3-4 inches of my hair greasy from washing the roots with conditioner. I'm using Suave "captivating curls" conditioner and spray gel along with TRESemme spray conditioner. Am i doing something seriously wrong? Is this going to get better, or can I somehow make it better? Advice, please!!

Also, I have red hair, so the texture is different from most other hair types. That may be what is causing the problem, but I'll take any advice on how to fix it! And I'm a college student, so cheap products are really my only option!

Anonymous (not verified) says: suave captivating curls

suave captivating curls contains silicones which are coating your hair and making it feel icky like that. do another shampoo wash with a sulfer shampoo to rid of the silicone and try using suave NATURALS (not professionals) or VO5 conditioners. these are much lighter conditioners and do not contain all the heavy silicones :)

Kary (not verified) says: I am a wavy girl and have

I am a wavy girl and have been going curly for about 2 months and mostly I love it. I love reading all the comments here! I have used the Curly Girl book and the Deva Curl products. But, I'm still having frizz issues. My hair is short in length but layered all over with longer sides and short stacked in the back. I love the back but am still not satisfied with the front and sides. I have just this week decided to not use hairspray to set the style. If I use spray it leaves the hair with that product and it's not easy to just re-wet and re-style.

I read the other comments about the www.Ouidad.com website and their products. I think I may try one or two of their products to tame the frizz but I am encouraged by all that I read here from so many followers of going completely "sulphate free" in their products.

I would LOVE to hear from more wavy haired girls about what is working for them. My husband absolutely loves my hair curly. I do to for the most part. It is an evolving process for sure!!

Yay go CURLY!!

proudmommy (not verified) says: I use argon oil and olive oil

I use argon oil and olive oil on my hair. To help with the frizz. Right after I take a shower a put a small amount of olive oil then argon oil. Hopefully this works :)

Jtye (not verified) says: I use a modified curly girl

I use a modified curly girl method and the difference in my curls is unbelievable! I tried more expensive products but have been happiest with Tresemme Naturals...low sulfate shampoo and silicone free conditioner. Alberto VO5 Tea Therapy conditioner as a leave in and LA Looks Nutra Curl gel. My curls look better than ever and ALL of my products cost under $15!!! I tried the no 'poo' and just couldn't hang in there to see it through! I also use a long sleeved cotton t shirt as a modified 'turban' after squeezing water and applying products, which I think makes all the difference! I rarely air dry...I diffuse on low setting, touching minimally, and I'm ready to go. Hope this helps others embrace their curls!

Erin @ Jax Beach (not verified) says: You're a goddess! Honestly, I

You're a goddess! Honestly, I think this is the most straightforward CurlyHair guidelines that I've ever read/seen. We'll be waiting for more updates.

Anonymous (not verified) says: I have been doing the no poo

I have been doing the no poo method for about 6 months and it has been life changing! A tip I do that may help others...

I de-tangle my curls in the shower wearing Powder-Free Vinyl Exam Gloves. Sounds crazy I know but my hands glide through my curls and tangles easily! They are cheap and last forever.

Ellie (not verified) says: I used Wen when my hair was

I used WEN when my hair was relaxed and it worked great. I am doing the curly girl method, the one silicone in WEN is making my hair dry, and hard, and trying to hydrate and get curl definition is like going through a firewall. I tried to hang in there because I spent big bucks on something that no longer works for my current hair routine. I guess I will shower with it.

Anonymous (not verified) says: Use a car shammy to dry your

Use a car shammy to dry your hair, they are super absorbent. Be sure when you wash the shammy you use NOOOO fabric softner so the shammy stays absorbent. If not big enough sew them together. Gets all the water out of your hair so you can style and get out the door for work. Also i use a pick on my hair to evenly distribute all hair products in my hair, haven't used a comb or brush in 20 years.

Stacy (not verified) says: The shake and rake works good

The shake and rake works good and I don't know if anyone has mentioned paper towels work really great getting moisture out of hair, and boosts my natural curlyness. (My hair is alot like yours in curl & length) I gently wrap my hair in a thin towel first out of the shower, and then I use 2 paper towels after every time I shampoo and condition it helps to get the final bit of water out so my hair isn't damp for hours. I also use the same damp paper towels after I scrunch Diva Curl gel into my hair. I think the damp paper towel helps to distribute the gel thru my hair. I think it keeps me from overloading my hair with my gel and that could help with the flakes & build up on yours? Good luck, your hair looks marvelous !

jy (not verified) says: I too battle the alabama

I too battle the alabama weather and curls/frizz. I'm a licensed cosmetologist and even as that still can't find a wash & go method. Other than...I'm thinking about trying a smoothing treatment (much like the keratin) which I've heard does remove some of your natural curl but it also removes all the frizz and should cause you to be able to wash & go. When I do wear it curly I LOVE LOVE LOVE Deva Curl products. THey have a 'no poo' cleanser (no shampoo) that is awesome. I had to try all the products to figure out what combo worked for me but they're worth trying!

Amanda (not verified) says: I highly highly HIGHLY

I highly highly HIGHLY recommend Hawaiian Silky. It is the best thing I have ever ever found for my curly hair. It's a moisturizer and a detangler and a curl activator. It is hair crack. I love that it doesn't give me the wet look. Nor does it make my hair crunchy. I can run my finger through my hair all day and my curls stay pretty and defined. They have it is Sally's and on Amazon

Anonymous (not verified) says: I agree with the person who

I agree with the person who recommends the Hawaian Silky Gel Activator. I have 4a natural hair, and so far it is the best. It moisturizes, curl activates, and "shines" your hair all at once, and it leaves your hair soft with no crunch. I have spent lots of money trying different products, Miss Jessie, Kinky Curl, etc. etc. and so far this product is my favorite. To top it off, it is DIRT cheap - around $4-$5.

Annie May (not verified) says: I noticed WEN was listed in

I noticed WEN was listed in your product tags, WEN has silicone in all the products and is not Curly Girl friendly. Silicone suffocates the hair from being able to absorb moisture and leaves hair limps and reluctant to create ringlets.
You have lovely hair and a beautiful curl pattern.
Thank you

Ashley Flores (not verified) says: Great blog! Very detailed,

Great blog! Very detailed, and I love that you had pics for each week. I have a YouTube channel and I am considering doing the Curly Girl Method during the winter months since I feel my hair will need the extra moisture anyway, so I'll come back and let you know how it goes! God bless <3

Willow Carver (not verified) says: I loved this article, I have

I loved this article, I have long curly hair. I've been putting gel in and twisting it up on top of my head, held by a scrunchie, until it dries. I get great curls and they stay in for days. My big find though, is a brush called the knot genie (knotgenie.com) ... it is AMAZING! So easy to brush out the tangles!! I highly recommend it ...

Baillie (not verified) says: My hair is so curly and

My hair is so curly and frizzy. I don't even try to do anything any more. I get frustrated cause I use so many products and they all don't work. I would put hell, mouse, and hairspray in it and it would still be frizzy and poofy. I heard of the the mixed chicks products andbivwa using the deep conditioner. And that was no help at all. And the hard part about what you did without shampooing your hair that I have really bad dandruff and I have to use dandruff shampoo to help. I wear my hair straight in the winter cause in this Louisiana humidity is horrible. So during the summer I wear it curly. And I wanna start wearing it curly in the winter cause it's less time and I'm really starting to like my curls. So plllllllease give me some tips on products and what to do.

Apy (not verified) says: Try using egg in your hair.

Try using egg in your hair. It worked for me.

Catherine (not verified) says: Love this post and the photos

Love this post and the photos are very helpful week by week. Thank you!!! I knew I wasn't supposed to shampoo, but I didn't realize I had to give up shampoo 100%. Yeek! I will switch it up and try the products you suggested. Thank you so much!!!!!

CurlyGirlie74 (not verified) says: I have naturally curly hair

I have naturally curly hair which requires frequent battling in this Alabama weather. The spiral of my curls are about the width of my thumb, but are not tight, nor loose. Growing up, I looked like a human q-tip because my hair would grow out, not down. It wasn't till I had 2 relaxers put in my hair that I was actually able to have some sense of style. It seems, I have spent more money and went through more hair products than I can count. I don't want to even think of the staggering dollar amount. Curling products (shampoo, gels, etc.) frizzes my hair. So, naturally, I a stay away from such products. For years, my only product of choice was mousse. I would wet my hair in the mornings and apply mousse. This would set my hair, but had the "wet" look to it. Afterwards, during my trial and error period, I was willing to try anything. After a long and expensive search, I found a Whipped Wax defining cream (Wal-mart salon $12) an amazing and VERY convenient solution. Two pumps of the wax actually acted as a repellent to the Alabama humidity and my curls would stay defined and bouncy. I couldn't believe it. After I washed and conditioned my hair at night, I would thoroughly apply 2 pumps of the wax and let it set for about 30 minutes before I went to bed. In the morning, I would run wet fingers through my hair and let it air dry as I put on make-up and got dressed. Then, I would style it with a pick and go. Many times I would not use hairspray. If it was going to rain, I would use Garnier Ant-Humidity hair spray (slender, green, aerosol can) as an extra defense to the humidity. Like several others who posted, my curly hair dries out. I found that Dove Conditioner works best for me (the stronger the conditioner, the better). Eventually, conditioner was not enough. Currently, I am using a very intense conditioner every 2 weeks or when I notice the frizzies were coming back (not as frequent during winter). I purchased a 6.6 oz tub of Ojon Dry Recovery at Ulta for $25. Yes, this is expensive, but it has lasted for almost a year. The best investment I've made so far. I would definitely buy it again. Before I found the Ojon, I was using Hask Placenta (yes, you are reading that correctly). This came in a spray bottle that can be purchased at Sally's Beauty Supplies. The results were immediate for my dry, pine-straw hair. I hope this helps someone. I am glad to see a post for curly hair. I think we all share a mutual battle with curly hair and to share what works for me, may be the solution for someone else.

Shawna (not verified) says: I use baby shampoo every 2-3

I use baby shampoo every 2-3 days and once every week or two I use Ojon's damage repair or deep recovery conditioner. It makes my hair so incredibly soft and shiny! If it's humid outside (I live in Canada) I'll use some of Ojon's hair therapy oil. It's 28$ but it lasts forever and makes my hair extra glossy without looking or feeling oily or wet. And it smells nice!
Definitely recommend to anyone with thick, pouffy curls!

Mel (not verified) says: I have VERY curly hair and

I have VERY curly hair and could never dream of not washing it . . .icky. But I don't wash every day. VERY important as curly hair is naturally dryer than straight hair. Also layers cut into your hair will help add spring to your curls instead of all on length which will weigh them down. I use a mousse specifically for curly hair, which is more light weight than gel. Most gels are made up of alcohol, which is more drying. Letting curls air dry will give you the most curl and is way less damaging and less frizz producing than a blow dryer. I straighten sometime and go curly sometimes. Straightening your hair with a flat iron once in a while isn't going to kill you curl for future curliness.

Anonymous (not verified) says: You are correct about the

You are correct about the fact that many gels are comprised of alcohol among other ingredients, but many are not. GC method does not have any alcohol, sulfate or silicone ingredients in their products.

Shelly (not verified) says: After finding this blog

After finding this blog accidentally, I bought the Curly Girl method book. The book convinced me to give up all products with sulfate and silicone and I started using DevaCurl products. That was about three months ago and the results are really nice. My curls have a lot more definition whereas before my hair was mainly just waves. I make the lavender spray (the recipe is in the CG book) and use that every other day to refresh my curls. One thing I want to mention is that I was using WEN products, but after reading the label carefully, I found that the products contain an ingredient which is basically a variation of silicone (anything that ends in "cone" is related to silicone). I quit using that and have seen an improvement in the texture and curl formation of my hair.

Ellie (not verified) says: Not using Wen with the CG

Not using WEN with the CG method was a smart step, I wished I had THOUGHT again before I purchased it. WEN is a good product but just not good for curl definition and hydration.

Terri (not verified) says: Wow... I have been a curly

Wow... I have been a curly girl for over a year now. I love the carefree way of embracing my curls and not dreading our humid South florida weather. I cant wait to try the "rake and shake". it took me about two months to figure out what worked with my curls. I still struggle with the front hairline being flat and hanging in my face. I use my sunglasses or a headband to keep it back. I occasionally -about 4 times in the past year- blow out my hair (which takes about 50 minutes and is a true shoulder work out) and it makes me appreciate the convenience of curly girl lifestyle. Thanks for your info!

Diane (not verified) says: I am definately interested in

I am definately interested in doing this. I think I'll start today. Must do some shopping, though. I have baby-fine curly hair. Most of my life I thought I had straight hair so I kept is short. Several years ago, I let it grow out. The longer it gets, the curlier and frizzier it gets. Add ANY amount of humidity (I live in the southwest, so our normal humidity is around 6%) and it gets worse. This sounds ideal for me! I do have an additional hitch in this, I have an allergy to citric acid...in any products so I now have to find haircare products that are sulfate-free, silicone-free, alchohol-free, as well as citric acid free. I think I'm going to be at the store a while today! :)

Diane (not verified) says: I'm replying to my own

I'm replying to my own comment? :) Today is day 4 of my Curly Girl life and I'm SOOOOO happy! By day 2 I was getting compliments on my hair and each day gets a little faster and easier. I did find the Shea Moisture product line locally (which shocked me because this is a pretty small town...no Target) and since they are certified organic, there's no citric acid. My hair has bounce and shine and NO frizz! I have learned that with my hair, I do have to comb it out before I go to bed. If I don't it is WAY tangled in the morning! I'm in the process of reading The Curly Girl book. Very glad that I stumbled onto this website! I'm embracing my curls and enjoying them for the first time! THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR EXPERIENCE! :)

Maggie (not verified) says: For his method you Must use

For his method you Must use Gel?

Anonymous (not verified) says: what if your hair isn't

what if your hair isn't curly? will it still curl if your hair is more like a straight/barely wavy?

Kary (not verified) says: Yes it does work. Seems that

Yes it does work. Seems that I have to use some type of holding spray. Am working toward not using but right now the top of my head seems drier and doesn't hold the curl I have very thick hair and its in a short style. Layered all over. I use Curly Girl book & products but am considering the Ouidad products.

Sam (not verified) says: Hey :D I freakin' love your

Hey :D I freakin' love your hair and the fact that you're sticking to your curls and the CG method:D
Your hair looks so shiny and helathy:D Your ringlets are bouncy, what else would a girl ask for? ^^
I have tight curls which don't really look like yours, but I still love them :)
I haven't started this method yet, but I wanna ask , are there some unwanted effects that might appear on the first week -maybe- ?
I have shoulder-lengh hair, and I used to blow dry it weekly, it tends to get frizzy and unmanagable, >< I hated it but I had to accept it this way .That was stupid xD And I was kind of not slef-confident.I hated those days,and I aim to start this method :D
Good luck ^^ and I hope it works :) <3 I believe that God has created us the best way we can ever look :D

Laurie (not verified) says: I love that I have found this

I love that I have found this Curly Girl page. I recently went sulfate free not because of wanting to be a Curly Girl but just to have healthier hair. Hark, I found out that I am a Curly Girl since going sulfate free. I use a cheaper version of WEN called Hair One. Hair One can be purchased at Sally Beauty Supply or online. This last bottle I purchased was around $12. I can't wait to try out the rest of the Curly Girl method to really enhance my curls.

Laurie

Amanda (not verified) says: Awesome! Now the no shampoo I

Awesome! Now the no shampoo I could see for a few days but not that long. Sulfates aren't good for colored hair and the lather really dries them out. So my hairdresser gave me deva curl. It's awesome! The shampoo is creamy and there are no suds to dry your hair out. It's almost like conditioner. Then there's the conditioner and you follow up with their gel. I've used a lot of mousse and creams but by the end of the day, your hair poofs out in spots. Gel is always crunchy and hard. But not this stuff. It's AMAZING. My curls are prettier than I've ever gotten them and it makes me feel beautiful. You want a lot on your hands and rub it through your ends. Once you have less on your hands, you work in into the rest of your hair. Not crunchy, or stiff, but controlled and frizz free. I'm in love and just wanted to share! Us curly girls need to stick together haha

Robyn (not verified) says: I've been doing "the curly

I've been doing "the curly girl method" for a couple of weeks now and found a great product line for my hair - Shea Moisture. It's at Target in the ethnic hair section and it's great. I use the sulfate free curl control shampoo about 2x week, the raw shea butter restorative conditioner and the curl & style conditioning milk to set. I don't even need gel. Smells great too! About 3x a week I just co-wash with Suave Naturals conditioner then use the conditioning milk.

Hayleigh (not verified) says: I really enjoyed reading

I really enjoyed reading this. I've seen the Curly Girl Method on a few different websites and had thought about trying it, but some of what it said didn't seem to make sense to me. I liked being able to see your experiences with it week by week.

I understand your dislike of abandoning shampoo altogether. I usually shampoo mine twice a week, and that seems to be enough to prevent it from getting greasy without ever drying it out. I also use a high quality conditioner (I use Organix moroccan argan oil conditioner) and focus on using it on the middle and tips of my hair, applying anything that's left after I do that to the top. I do that at the beginning of my shower and rinse it out at the end. I also do a deep-conditioning treatment twice a month.

I don't use a gel, because I don't like having crunchy curls, but have started using a texturizing putty. It's hard to find the perfect amount to use (too much leaves my hair feeling greasy), but when I mix that in with some leave-in conditioner, I find that it works well.

Adrienne (not verified) says: I also use Organix products.

I also use Organix products. I use the Keratin conditioner and the argan shampoo. I also use the leave in oil. I also use Tresemme mouse for curly hair. I would like to try and wash my hair less but when I try to just put the conditioner in it, it is so hard to get ir to go through my hair without a lot of pulling. Any suggestions on how to get the conditioner to go through easier?

Monica Lynn (not verified) says: I use a wide tooth comb to

I use a wide tooth comb to distribute the conditioner. It only has like 8 teeth in the entire comb and it has a hooked handle so u can hang it in the shower. I have had it forever but I think I just got it at Walmart for a couple bucks. It works great!

Anonymous (not verified) says: I love what you're doing. I

I love what you're doing. I have curly hair and I think that it's great to wear it naturally. I'm a hairdresser and I've read the whole Curly Girl book. I also use Lorraine's product "DevaCurl" religiously. DevaCurl is awesome because it's a professional product, sulfate free, and especially for curly hair. Another favor to your hair would be to get it cut the curly girl way...dry. And not comb it out, but to take individual curls and trim them. So basically, your hair is a bunch of different lengths, but nobody notices because it's always curly. This method is excellent because curls "memorize" where to go and every time you brush them, they have to re-remember. I only run my fingers through my hair in the shower and them leave it. I don't even brush the gel through. And I get compliments on my hair at least once a day :) keep trying ladies!

Britta (not verified) says: Love your last pictures with

Love your last pictures with the rake and shake thing- the curls look so beautiful!

Anonymous (not verified) says: I like the way your hair

I like the way your hair looks without the "Rake & Shake" method, I think you get nicer curls without it. I have very curly hair and have found that rubbing coconut oil in my hands and running it through my hair helps to eliminate frizz. Love your post, thank you.

Mika (not verified) says: Love the tips! I use natural

Love the tips! I use natural olive oil soap (made locally in Turkey) for a "shampoo" and it makes soft bouncy curls. I love Frederick Fekkai's Glossing Cream but I can't get it in Turkey and ended up just using extra virgin olive oil: apply about a quarter-size amount onto wet hands and starting at the ends slowly scrunch up until you reach the roots. My hair is naturally baby fine but extra curly and most commercial products make it frizzy, fluffy or an afro/bouffant style. I also buy 100% pure apricot oil and use that occasionally if I don't have EEVO available. I will try the no shampoo method - in the past I've always just rinsed my hair after a sweaty/salty workout and reapplied EEVO at the ends so I'm almost there already! also for those with cowlicks... if you have a side part, try parting on the left side instead! when my hair is still damp, I apply a bit of product to the bangs, sweep them over to the side and fasten in place with a bobby pin - adjusting the pin slightly until dry.
Off Topic: Extra virgin olive oil is also (btw) excellent for your skin! I use it every night as a cleanser and face cream. As a cleanser: apply to DRY face with DRY hands and rub in a circular motion, then splash your face with warm water - it really cleans the pores. After your face is dry, apply the EEVO in 2 very light layers - the first all over the face and then the "trouble spots" for dryness (under the eyes, laugh lines, etc) and lightly massage in. I'm 46 and my skin is still baby smooth!

Anonymous (not verified) says: I just bought and read the

I just bought and read the Curly Girl handbook--it's changed my life! I'v eonly been using the method for a few days, but I already love my new curly hair! I had curls when I was little but all the years of using sulfate shampoos left my hair bushy, frizzy, and uncooperative. I would lather it in silicone conditioners and try to blow dry it straight, never understanding why it always came out looking frizzier than before.
I've switched to using a sulfate-free product from Marc Anthony called Curl Defining Lotion, and am sticking to the conditioner I've been using for awhile, American Cream from Lush, which is natural and so leaves hair soft without becoming greasy. I did splurge for the DevaCurl spray gel, since I don't really like the crunchiness of most gels. If you are finding that your gel or other hair styling producst are leaving your hair gross and sticky like I was, make sure that you find a mousse or gel that doesn't contain alcohol. This dries hair out further and creates frizz.
In additon, read the labels on shampoos claiming to be "sulfate free"; L'Oreal for example still contains "Sulfoacetate" and I found others contained cocoasulfate or similar things!

Leslie (not verified) says: Beware, Anonymous - I was

Beware, Anonymous - I was doing research on this method and thought Lush might be a great place to get natural, silicone-free conditioners. While they are indeed silicone-free, many, including American Cream, contain sulfates. I hear the Tresemme Natural Nourishing Conditioner is a great, cheap silicone and sulfate-free option!

Tiffanydbell (not verified) says: Yes! Tresemme Naturals is

Yes! Tresemme Naturals is great. I began using the curly girl method about three months ago, and I am having great results. In fact, I have found that I do not even need gel. I use the conditioner as a gel when I wand to refresh the curls and my hair responds well. It is smoother and curlier that ever. I have gotten lots of compliments! I do need to use a light oil to seal in the moisture though.

Anonymous (not verified) says: your hair looks a lot better

your hair looks a lot better and less frizzy. more like salon hair vs. do it yourself. good job for hanging in there during experiment

Tonia (not verified) says: Amy (and whomever else), I

Amy (and whomever else), I use the WEN product (cleanser/conditioner all in one) from QVC and it works great for repairing split ends and my hair has grown longer than ever. It is very expensive but it lasts a long time). It also helps with curls and for me it takes away dandruff and dry scalp. But, it is called a daily wash. It makes my hair look great for a while and then it gets oily. It also does amazing things for color (like tones down brassy look). So, I use it now only once a week (or two) and use my old shampoo and conditioner in between. Everyone has complimented my hair sense I started using though.

andrea b. (not verified) says: She's not a model, that's

She's not a model, that's Seanne Corne, a yoga teacher. I haven't tried this method yet.

Anonymous (not verified) says: can someone tell me how often

can someone tell me how often curly hair girls should wash their hair with the conditioner? i go to the gym everyday and i am not sure it is healthy to wash it everyday.

Queen of the Universe (not verified) says: I think it depends on your

I think it depends on your preference. I would rinse after working out with just water and rub your scalp with your fingers to loosen the dirt. Then reapply your leave in conditioner. You don't really have to wash but once a week to once a month. Doing what I just described will not dry your hair and will keep your scalp clean, especially after a good sweat.

Lee (not verified) says: I have the same question...so

I have the same question...so do you use conditioner every day? Not to "wash" it per say, but to help with tangles and dirt and such? So basically if you don't wash your scalp are you supposed to was the rest of your hair everyday?

Andrea says: I don't know what others

I don't know what others do...but I do wet & condition my hair almost every day. Since I work out regularly, I simply *have* to or it would be a greasy, sweaty mess. If I don't work out one day, then I may skip wetting my hair, but I'd probably wear it up instead of down & curly.

Sara (not verified) says: My friend sent this to me

My friend sent this to me because I have curly hair and am a beauty addict and although I didn't read all your posts so I may be saying something another reader already has I'll go ahead and tell you that most of the drugstore brand leave in conditioners/gels are laden with silicone which leaves hair sticky and oily. If you've got the cash, I recommend using Kerastase Creme Oleo Curl Leave-In Conditioner: http://www.kerastase-usa.com/_en/_us/nutritive-creme_oleo_curl.htm
Yes, it's $39 a pop, but I have tried all the major and minor leave-in conditioners, and only one eliminates frizz and leaves your hair touhable and curly. Plus I have had countless strangers tell me my hair smells amazing. They just did a promo of 20% off online, but I think it might be over. Anyway, I find after working tirelessly to tame my curls for 35 years, Kerastase is an investment that pays.
P.S. Beware of buying it anywhere but from the Kerastase USA site or a salon. Lots of fakes floating out there.

Queen of the Universe (not verified) says: This sounds but its not Curly

This sounds but its not Curly Girl friendly. If I ever stop the cg method I may definitely try this.

Anonymous (not verified) says: Does anyone know of a mousse

Does anyone know of a mousse product that will not dry out my hair? Which brands work the best?

Lisa Messmer (not verified) says: I use Paul Mitchell Sculoting

I use Paul Mitchell Sculoting Foam and Soft Spray and LOVE it... keeps my curls curly :)

Anonymous (not verified) says: I really like herbal essences

I really like herbal essences totally twisted curl boosting mousse. I have it in strong 3 and it works really well for me. I have super think hair. And another bonus it comes with is no silicones. When you are using the curly girl method you stop using sulfate shampoo. Therefore, you cannot use silicones in your products because the only thing that removes silicone is sulfate. This may be a reason for product build up while on the method! Check your products for silicones and get products that don't contain silicones. You can get a list online of which silicones are ok and which aren't. Hope this helped! Also waterlily716 has some great videos on YouTube to help you with this method!:)

Anonymous (not verified) says: I love Aussie's Catch the

I love Aussie's Catch the Wave Mousse + Leave in Conditioner!

A-Non-Amous (not verified) says: My hair has large waves like

My hair has large waves like your before picture... too short and it's straight with a "cowlick" in front. Mid-length and it's wavy. Long and it becomes less wavy due to weight. Hot dry summer and it's very loose waves to almost straight, while in our wet Seattle winters it becomes curly (and frizzy). It's also oily and NEEDS washing every other day. While I like your curls by week 6, I could never stand the oily look and feel; I can't even stand the feel of conditioner in my hair. I hate the greasy look and feel of gels. Is there a way of enhancing my curls, especially in summer heat, while still shampooing my hair? Incidentally, I try and mainly shampoo close to the scalp and just let the shampoo rinse out & thru through the rest of my hair.

Anonymous (not verified) says: your hair becomes greasy by

your hair becomes greasy by taking the grease out everyday of stripping the oils out of your hair, your scalpp thinks sense there arent any oils in your hair anymore that it should make more, and youve trained your hair to make a lot of oils all of the time so i would go a week without using shampoo or washing it and it will stop producing so much grease if you only wash it like 2 times a week

Anonymous (not verified) says: when your hair is oily and

when your hair is oily and you shampoo alot you are washing out the oil and your scalp thinks that it needs more, you need to UN train your scalp from producing all that oil, you can clean your hair with stripping it down so that your head is just producing MORE....

Rayne (not verified) says: Hi! Found your post in a

Hi! Found your post in a google search on Curly girl. I just started and can totally relate...I miss being able to run my fingers through my hair. It feels so tangled and nappy that I keep thinking I need to wash it again. Uck! I'm hoping with time, it won't feel so bad. Thanks for sharing your experience.

Jess (not verified) says: What does the curly girl

What does the curly girl thing say about girls who are constantly in pools? if you don't use shampoo how do you get the chemicals and chlorine out of your hair?

Tiffanydbell (not verified) says: You can use baking soda to

You can use baking soda to clarify your hair. It can be added to your conditioner during your wash routine. Add a small amount to your conditioner, wash, and rinse. Do a Google search to read more. It opens the cuticle of your hair, causing it to absorb more water, so be careful to rinse with cold water to close the cuticle. This also prevents frizz! Baking Soda is a far less expensive way to clean your hair. And it can be used in conjunction with CG method.

Anonymous (not verified) says: The book suggests putting a

The book suggests putting a small amount of olive oil onto hair before diving in to prevent the hair shaft from opening causing excess drying.

Angel (not verified) says: Thanks soo much for this

Thanks soo much for this info! my daughters curls are starting to go limp... I am hoping this method will bring the life back! Thanks again!

tracey (not verified) says: Okayy i like the results butt

Okayy i like the results butt i have straight hair & i wanna go curly SOOO Badley soo can i still use this meathod even though i have sraight hair

Amber (not verified) says: No, if you have straight hair

No, if you have straight hair using all the conditioner will just make your hair extremely greasy and heavy. Using products made for curly hair will not turn straight hair into curly hair.

Julie (not verified) says: I didn't read all the pages

I didn't read all the pages of comments but I wanted to throw in a couple things that work for me! I think we have very similar hair types and I have been done using shampoo for a few months now as well.

2 things I do differently:

Instead of leaving conditioner in, I use coconut oil as a leave-in conditioner after t-shirt drying while I scrunch. I don't even need gel (HUGE STATEMENT FOR ME) unless I'm going somewhere windy outdoors.

I use apple cider vinegar/water (3 TBLS to 1C) instead of white vinegar. I think it's more conditioning, less harsh.

Thanks again! Your pics look great :))

Lisadee (not verified) says: Andrea, Thanks so very much

Andrea,
Thanks so very much for sharing your curly hair experience. I too am still experimenting on what routine works well for my locks, and I am getting slowly but shirley. Must run out and get the book you spoke of though!!!

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